I'm very inspired by Post Secret on many, many levels and have decided to start a regular Secret Sunday here on the blog. My goal is to take the postcard that stood out to me the most (either because I can relate or because it got me thinking about a specific topic) and giving my perspective on why it was significant to me.
This week's post surrounds this submission:
I can completely relate to this poster. I don't understand either.
I feel that I'm at a unique age where I'm young enough to be sensitive to the necessity of a certain amount of political correctness in our society but am old enough to remember when everyone just said, "Merry Christmas." In fact, that doesn't seem like it was too long ago.
Could it have been that 10 years ago there were no atheists?
Did nobody celebrate Hanukkah?
Surely not, right? So what's changed?
In my opinion, we've crossed a line. We've gone from being aware of other cultures and belief systems (which, as a pretty liberal individual, I'm ALL about) to being afraid to just say whatever comes natural to us.
Tell me Joyous Kwanzaa, please. I'll appreciate the sentiment. Don't be afraid to offend me.
If it's more natural for you to say Merry Christmas, then haye... I'll take those well wishes also!
And of course, if you prefer to say Happy Holidays, have at it!
There's a great difference between being socially aware and being socially inept, yet the line between the two seems to be blurring more over time.
Don't purposefully offend anyone. But don't freak out over the thought of accidently saying 'the wrong' blessing to someone during the holiday season.
When you fumble around searching for the most politically correct phrase, any genuineness in your intent is lost in those few seconds I saw your mind flipping through its pages trying to ascertain what to say.
Maybe I'm the only one, but it's somewhat more offensive to me when people try so hard not to be offensive. I find myself thinking, do I come across as someone who would get upset over a 'Happy Hanukkah?'
We're all trying to be kinder, especially this time of year. But I don't expect for anyone to 'tiptoe' around my beliefs (or lack of). And, I think if you took a poll, most people would agree that they would not be offended by you wishing them a blissful holiday season in the terms and expressions that mean the most to you, whether Merry Christmas or Happy Hanukkah.
It's more human that way. It's realer. It's authentic and personal. Let's keep that part of the holidays alive. This generic 'one-size fits all holiday mumbo jumbo' isn't doing any of us any favors--at least not in my mind
I'd ask if I'm alone in this, but ya know... Post Secret made me realize today that there's at least one other who agrees with me.
Secret Sunday is a series of posts inspired by the weekly submissions to Post Secret.
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